ROMEO AND JULIET & TRUE LOVE
The love that occurs in Romeo and
Juliet happens very suddenly in a “love at first sight” scenario. Given their respective backgrounds, neither
Romeo nor Juliet knew the other existed until the night of the Capulet party
when Romeo first laid eyes on Juliet, which results in instant infatuation. This sequence occurs in Act I Scene V at the
Capulet house during the party of which Romeo attends without invitation. When he first sees Juliet with Paris he is
immediately struck by her beauty. And
for that matter, Romeo’s first comments about Juliet (although at this point,
he doesn’t even know her name) are geared towards her gorgeous looks- “O, she
doth teach the torches to burn bright...Like a rich jewel in an Ethiope's
ear... Beauty too rich for use.” He goes
as far as question all of his prior judgments of love- “Did my heart love till
now?” Without evening talking to her,
Romeo is certain he has found true love- mind you, all this happens within
minutes of Romeo first laying eyes on Juliet.
As quickly as it all happens, Romeo’s infatuation with her turns into
true love. When discovering they are
part of a long existing family feud, they defy their names and lovers.
Owen and Abby’s love does not come this easily. Unlike with Romeo and Juliet, there is no
indication that any sort of relationship will arise from the first meeting
between Owen and Abby. Abby’s first words to Owen create immediate distance
between them. “I can’t be your friend,”
she tells him. After a few moments of
awkward silence, she walks away. Owen
upset by the statement informs her that he doesn’t even want to be her
friend. He ends by mumbling “idiot,”
referring to Abby. This could not be
farther from love at first sight, and for that matter, their interaction comes
off as the complete opposite of Romeo and Juliet’s first meeting.
But regardless of how it starts, Owen and Abby develop a relationship equally
as deep and as loving as what exists between Romeo and Juliet, arguably the
most quintessential couple to ever be created. What occurs between both couples is true love,
but for each comes different reasons. Romeo
and Juliet want to love each other very badly. They have such strong feelings for
each other that when Romeo is faced with a life without Juliet thinking she is
dead on her tomb, he kills himself. In a
similar way, Owen and Abby want to love each other too. But this desire exists between any young
couple in love. However, what is as
equally strong as this desire is the fact that the two of them need each other
to survive their daunting and miserable lives, seen especially by Owen.
Throughout the story, Owen is portrayed to be a loner with no friends. He tells Abby of a friend he once had, but
the boy moved away. He constantly gets
bullied and harassed by kids at school and his parents, who Reeve’s never lets
us see, offer no help to the persistent bullying. From what we see, the audience can assume
that this problem has been going on for some time. And there looks to be no end in sight for his
problems, until he meets Abby. She is
the one who teaches him to fight back against the bullies. Although
he gets in trouble for whacking the bully in the ear, Abby is the only person
in the movie that offers any help to the bullying- more than even his parents. Even more so than the payback, their
relationship gives Owen a friend when he had none. Their relationship is not based on looks or
lust; the two of them just enjoy each other’s company. Above anything, their friendship gives Owen a
sense of happiness, an emotion we can assume doesn’t come by him very often. In the same way, the love they form a similar
emptiness we find in Abby, the 12 year old vampire in our world.
The most romantic scene between the two (at least in my opinion), comes
not when Abby lies next to Owen naked in bed, mind you no sex comes of it. Instead, their romance is best communicated
in a simple note from Abby that the police inspector finds lying on the ground of
Owen’s apartment. In it is a line that reads- “Want to hang out with me again
tonight? I really like you.” Their relationship is as simple as that. The love that exists between them is true
love, just as Romeo and Juliet’s. But unlike theirs, it is not based on looks
and infatuation as much as it is on dependability and companionship- two aspects
of a relationship that run much deeper in the restraining lives of young lovers.
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